Sexting on OnlyFans is easy, and for a long time, it was my go-to website when I could spare an evening alone. After a while, it started raising some red flags for me. Was the person sending me pics genuinely the person in the pictures? Was I being scammed? Here are some tips I picked up along the way to stay savvy on OnlyFans and alternative websites that I enjoyed even more.
The Pitfalls of OnlyFans Creators when it comes to chat and connection
OnlyFans is a modern porn site, and it comes with all the bells and whistles you would expect. If you spend enough cash, you can see pics and videos of your favorite content creators. Some will even sext with you, or so they would have you believe. The truth is that it’s called OnlyFans—not OnlyCreators, and the person you’re speaking with may not be who you had hoped. And in my case, this was a huge turnoff.
If you do a brief Internet search, you can find out just how lucrative OnlyFans sexting is for the creators. They make money hand over fist by sexting strangers. Some charge upwards of $100 per hour for sexting, and people are willing to pay it. You can bet that people with significant followings are receiving so many requests, that they may have to outsource the chatting component to keep up with demand. That means they were potentially hiring chatters to chat with me, people whose gender, age, and appearance I wasn’t acquainted with.
Some newer creators may use sexting to entice people to buy their pay-per-view content, but those with an established audience will likely not need to. If it doesn’t matter to you who you’re sexting with, then you can proceed without caution. But those who care about the authenticity of the experience will want to learn from my mistakes and follow some guidelines to avoid sexting with someone you’d rather not.
Don’t Be Fooled
Just because some people are getting taken advantage of with OnlyFans ‘Chatters’ doesn’t mean you have to be one of them. If it doesn’t seem feasible that you are chatting with the creator of your choice, chances are, you’re not. If you feel like something is off, trust your gut. When I connected with my favorite adult star, it felt like I had won the lottery. But then I began to wonder: why was she available 24/7? That’s not possible. When I asked to do a video call, I was put off. Why was she available for sexting but not a video call?
When I looked through the OnlyFans Terms of Service, I realized that there was a decent chance I wasn’t sexting with who I thought I was at all. Part 12 of the contract between Fan and Creator says that the Fan acknowledges that a third party may assist in Creator Interactions. That was the turning point for me. I wanted something that felt more authentic, less scammy.
If you want to continue chatting with OnlyFans Creators, don’t make the same mistakes I did. Ensure that you’re chatting with someone verifiable, either by requesting a video call and by checking that they aren’t always available. Those are surefire signs that you’re chatting with someone the Creator hired—not the creator herself.
Options Outside of OnlyFans
Thankfully, OnlyFans isn’t the only sexting site in the game. Other competitors are challenging their stronghold, and that’s a good thing. The next sexting frontier I explored was AI. After all, the technology is now so advanced that some people can’t tell artificial intelligence from the real deal. If it was that realistic, why not give it a whirl?
What I found was that, sometimes, sexting AI feels empty. It lacks the human element of surprise and connection that is the cherry on top of an X-rated exchange. Further, some AI is more intelligent than others, and I paid accordingly. Many of the newer AI sexting options will charge for a bot with memory that can learn, whether under a premium subscription or a fee per text. And the pictures are often drawings rather than realistic photos. It became less and less sexy when I was abruptly reminded that I was sexting with a bot in the middle of an exchange. Overall, AI was briefly fun for me to explore role play, but it didn’t scratch the itch I had, which was wanting a real live sexting partner.
Arousr—the Reigning Champ of Sexting
After I became frustrated with the limits of AI, I stumbled upon Arousr, a website where I realized there are sexting partners galore. You can see who is online and whether they are available for video chat, sexting, phone sex, and more. Everyone on the site is verified, so what you see is what you get.
For me, this was everything. I could sext when I wanted with whomever I chose. There weren’t any unpleasant surprises, like remembering I was chatting with a computer program or wondering if there was a man on the other end of this conversation. For me, Arousr is by far the best sexting alternative to OnlyFans.
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